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by toekuttr
on Tue Mar 18, 2008 12:46 pm |
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Well Tristaneugene, surely you can see that NOtInhis eyEs or whatever simply came here to gloat. So far, it doesnt seem like you have, and I dont see anyone "ganging up" on you either. There are archives available, and you might want to read some previous anti-smokers threads before you comment on how they were treated.  |
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by Lynda F
on Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:29 pm |
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Tristeneugene wrote:
Saying, and worse! believing in, things such as: ''I personally believe you shouldn't be allowed to have children until you pass a test that proves you can properly provide for the child and will properly raise him.......and I mean financially, mentally and emotionally..........would you like such a law in place?'' is the reason these laws have to be placed in the first place.
I'm not sure I understand what you are trying to say here. Are you saying that I abused my child because I smoked in his presence at home and in the car? My son is a very healthy 28 year old, and I'd like you to try to tell him to his face that in your opinion his mother abused him and he should be deathly ill if not already dead. Just don't get offended when he drops to the floor laughing his ass off and slams the door in your face. Seriously. Explain how all us baby boomers managed to survive in far better health than any of today's children who are hardly, if ever, exposed to SHS. Hell, the doctors can't even explain that one. Which leads me to believe that us smokers must be some kind of superior beings to have survived (and we number in the millions so it's not a fluke).
Tristeneugene wrote: You sound pissed. Too pissed to really contribute anything positive. Smoking aside, why don't you go to the child welfare services and huff and puff at them with your ''I own my child and can do with that child anything I want'' point of view. See what they have to say about your misinterpretation of your responsibility to raise a human being (not your child) properly. I am not talking about smoking either!
Damn right I'm pissed. After years of being verbally harassed by people who for years kept their mouths shut and never complained to try to get their favorite restaurant to go smoke-free, they wait until they can pass total bans. Sorry, my considerate, patient, understanding button broke a couple of years ago. This is back door prohibition. And since it's been proven that exposure to SHS does NOT cause anything (remember, hundreds of millions of us survived long before you thought to save us), I resent someone then coming in here and making statements they believe parents shouldn't be allowed to smoke in the car with the kids there. WHO asked you? That's your belief, fine, but to come to a forum for smokers and make such a statement surely you had to expect something. I was nice in my first post to you. I allowed that you were really only trying to understand, etc............then you had to go and make a statement that basically says you think parents have NO RIGHT to make any choices concerning their own children. OUR life experience has shown us that we were NOT endangering our healthy children.
You need to explain that last sentence to me for it makes no sense to me at all. Honestly I don't understand what you mean there.
Tristeneugene wrote: Everyone here, Please. I did not come here to this forum to be attacked. This kind of behavior is exactly why there is so much difficulty in trying to solve anything. If you want to ask me something or argue a point. I can do it. But It is unnerving and disappointing to be ganged up on and bullied.
No one ganged up on you. No one attacked you. You made a statement. I responded to it, and I actually did so relatively calmly. Others liked my response. That is not ganging up on you..........that's just a bunch of people expressing their opinions.
You obviously have chosen to take it as an attack and yet just above you accuse me of being unreasonable for feeling the same way. Our behavior was never like this when REASONABLE RESTRICTIONS existed. However, things are no longer reasonable and they are NOT stopping with smoking. THIS is what happens when people are pushed too hard for too long. We start fighting back.
Sorry if I'm a little over-sensitive on this issue for you, but try living with the lies and abuse thrown at us daily for years and you won't be all sweet and nice either. |
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by Darkseid
on Thu Mar 20, 2008 5:35 pm |
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GIVE 'EM HELL, LYN!!  |
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by JoshNJ
on Thu Apr 03, 2008 10:50 pm |
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STDog wrote: Tristeneugene wrote: What is the oppinion here regarding a law making it illegal to smoke in a private vehicle when a minor is present? If it is believed that it should be allowed, then why?
My view is the same as with any other private property. My car or my house, no difference. As long as it dos not pose a significant danger to other vehicles and/or their occupants.
Any one in my vehicle is there by choice. If they are not old enough to make that choice then someone with legal authority to do so has. So, me for my kids, and the parents of any child that might ride with me.
You have ever right to restrict what I do on your property,. That where you make the rules. But not my property.
I agree with this viewpoint. It's unfortunate that parents smoke with kids in the car (my personal opinion), but then again they smoke in their homes with their kids so what's the difference? I think a law restricting this will not do anything whatsoever. If a parent feels it is wrong to smoke around a minor, then they won't do it on their own. The point of a law such as this is quite simply useless.
STDog wrote: Tristeneugene wrote: I believe that smoking should not occur in a car etc when minors are in it.
And that your choice for your car. And you can decide that for your kids since you control what vehicles they are in.
But jut because you didn't like something your parents did is not a valid reason to interfere with others.
Just like banning corporal punishment. Some people abuse things but not everyone (or even most) does.
The OP refers to a memory of riding on the floor of their parent's car as an 8 year old and this is why s/he dislikes smoking. It certainly sounds like this is someone making a choice not to smoke because s/he had a bad experience. This sounds like a great idea for those on the anti side. Smoke around kids and then they'll grow up to become non-smokers:) Ok, but to be serious for a second, the questions posted fails to draw the difference of a ban on a person's action in a public places and now a restriction on a person's action while in a private setting. If the argument is to protect the health of those who cannot speak up for themselves, then how effective could this rule in cars really be? Is a child's health only important while driving? In my opinion, a person who needs to smoke while driving (kids or no kids) is probably a safer driver when they are smoking. |
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by Lynda F
on Tue Apr 08, 2008 10:37 am |
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JoshNJ wrote: Ok, but to be serious for a second, the questions posted fails to draw the difference of a ban on a person's action in a public places and now a restriction on a person's action while in a private setting. If the argument is to protect the health of those who cannot speak up for themselves, then how effective could this rule in cars really be? Is a child's health only important while driving? In my opinion, a person who needs to smoke while driving (kids or no kids) is probably a safer driver when they are smoking.
The car bans are just the next step. Get people to accept the intrusion into your private space by claiming "it's for the children" first, then there will be NO uproar when they crash through the front doors of your homes. Those cheering this on are actually dumb enough to believe this will stop with smoking (or drinking). They laugh at the idea that this will lead to government intrusion into every aspect of your life, including your private space at home (think kitchen, living room, bathroom, bedroom - someone somewhere wants to monitor what you do there). I can't wait to see them laugh when the nanny's finally come for them. |
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by JoshNJ
on Fri Apr 11, 2008 1:01 pm |
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Lynda F wrote: The car bans are just the next step. Get people to accept the intrusion into your private space by claiming "it's for the children" first, then there will be NO uproar when they crash through the front doors of your homes. Those cheering this on are actually dumb enough to believe this will stop with smoking (or drinking). They laugh at the idea that this will lead to government intrusion into every aspect of your life, including your private space at home (think kitchen, living room, bathroom, bedroom - someone somewhere wants to monitor what you do there). I can't wait to see them laugh when the nanny's finally come for them.
I understand there are a couple states (Connecticut and New Jersey) that are considering this type of ban. I believe Louisiana already has it on the books, but I personally believe a law banning smoking while driving with children is outside the scope of legitimate government interest.
Many differences between this type of ban and the smoking bans for bars, restaurants, casinos, etc. Most importantly the distinction lies with the fact that a car or vehicle is private property. I know many have argued this for bars and restaurants, but I'm not going to divert to another tangent restating the reasons. They are different and that's why I believe a legal challenge to a smoking while driving with children in the car can be overturned. Had the lawmakers reasoned the ban while driving based on a distraction argument, it may have a stronger basis for passing constitutional muster.
There are just too many factors making the health of a passenger under the age of 13 a difficult reason to accept. Besides the fact that cars emit toxins such as carbon monoxide, I have had the pleasure of inhaling sulfur fumes when my battery decided to malfunction, inhaling fumes from burning oil when my engine cover cracked, and inhaling gas fumes while waiting at a gas station or driving with an engine problem. The point is, in a car there are dangerous harmful fumes being inhaled equal to or worse than second hand cigarette smoke. Unless children are going to be required to wear protective gas masks while riding in a vehicle, I don't believe this ban is going to bring the results argued.
As I have mentioned earlier, a ban based on the distraction argument would have a stronger leg to stand on. It relates to a safety issue that can be determined a hazard while driving. So why didn't the lawmakers go that way? It's not a popular argument and it would not get the same focus or attention in the media. To put it lightly, it's not politically useful in that form.
I think Lynda is right about the public not paying close enough attention to what kind of doors this law will open up. The fortunate thing is that it can be brought to question at anytime with a proper challenge in the courts or arguing to your legislators that the merits are flawed. Those that cheer on this type of ban are not supporters of privacy rights. They don't care if the government tells them what they can or cannot do in their own homes because they believe they are safer with this type of surveillance or they believe they have nothing to hide so go ahead and watch me. You can't argue with that type of mentality, all you can do is explain how while the law may sound like a good idea, it will not have any positive effect in the end.
If it is for the children, put the safety requirements on the children. It may sound ridiculous to require smoking parents to purchase gas masks for their children while driving, but it would be the only way to protect them from hazardous fumes while riding in a car. Just show a video of children wearing that or how they refuse to wear them will be good evidence of the ridiculousness of this kind of government intrusion. |
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